POV: When You Realize You’re Thriving Single
I cancelled my wedding a month before it was scheduled to happenđ„ Dress paid for đ° Venue, cake, photographer, videographer, DJ, officiant, amongst many other vendors deposits given tođ° A part of me didnât want to cancel it because I was so far into it. But an even BIGGER part of me knewâŠknew that I […]
Why Your Self Worth Doesnât Depend on your Relationship
đ„ Have you ever felt like your value drops the moment youâre single? Letâs change that. â€âđ©č Itâs so commonâespecially for high-achieving womenâto attach their worth to being chosen, loved, or in a relationship. Society reinforces this all the time. đ But your worth was never meant to be measured by your relationship status. Itâs […]
Letting Go of Our Old Self
Have you ever noticed thereâs a feeling that we feel when letting go of “old” things?  đ„ Making healthy choices doesnât always feel easy and joyful  đ Sometimes letting go, or making healthy choices hurt â€ïžâđ©č This feeling can be similar to Grief.. letting go of our Old Self is sort of like shedding; letting go can feel […]
Rebuilding Self Esteem After Hurt
Rebuilding self-esteem after experiencing hurt can be a challenging but ultimately empowering journey. I created a video on our YouTube channel from one of our Tuesday’s Tea sessions in our Affinity Lounge Women’s group, talking about this topic; you can CHECK IT OUT HERE. Otherwise, here are some steps that can help you regain your […]
9 Signs of Codependency
Do you feel like youâve been pleasing others and sacrificing your dreams? Or have you been relying on your family or loved ones to make your life decisions? Although itâs okay to make sure our loved ones are happy, thereâs a difference between reciprocated contentment and codependence. There are a variety of circumstances that may […]
How to Keep the Past in the Past
In this very first episode, I talk about how to leave the past in the past. It can be difficult leaving things that have happened to us in the past, especially if they were hurtful or traumatic experiences. Check out my suggestion in this video! love always, dani ___________ p.s. Whenever youâre ready⊠here are a […]
The REAL About Me
My name is Danielle, but Iâm better known as Dani. I was born in Homestead, Florida to island parents (from Trinidad & Tobago). I grew up as an only child, but have four older half siblings. Growing up in Homestead, the idea of beauty (to me) were girls who were âthick,â or âcurvaceous.â As youâve […]
2021 Reflections
Happy Holiday and Happy New Year loves! I wanted to share with you my personal reflections, not just of this past year, but also comparing who I am today to who I was years ago. Whatâs happened to me and changes. The pandemic has encouraged me to be in a reflective mode, in a gratitude […]
Questions to Ask if Choosing a Substance Abuse Treatment Center
Acceptance is one of the hardest things to do when it comes to anything in general, but especially when it comes to addiction. Choosing the right treatment center whether it be for your loved one or yourself plays a pivotal role in recovery. Iâve compiled a list of questions that I feel are important to […]
How to Deal With Grief & Loss
It seems as though death is looming all around me right now. I donât know if itâs because itâs a full moon lately or what. I, myself, have experienced three losses in the last two weeks and friends of mine have also experienced loss recently (or the anniversary of someone close to them passing away). […]