Many of the women I work with say the same thing: “I thought this was just how love was supposed to feel.”
😣 Exhausting. Uncertain. Like walking on eggshells.
But often, what we’ve normalized… is dysfunction.💥
What we’ve accepted… is a reflection of our past, not our worth.
💔 Here are a few beliefs that might feel 𝘯𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘢𝘭 to you, but are actually holding you back:
💭 “𝘐𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘭𝘦𝘧𝘵, 𝘪𝘵 𝘮𝘶𝘴𝘵 𝘮𝘦𝘢𝘯 𝘐 𝘸𝘢𝘴𝘯’𝘵 𝘦𝘯𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩.”
💭 “𝘙𝘦𝘢𝘭 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦 𝘴𝘩𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭 𝘭𝘪𝘬𝘦 𝘩𝘢𝘳𝘥 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘬.”
💭 “𝘐 𝘫𝘶𝘴𝘵 𝘢𝘵𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘤𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘸𝘳𝘰𝘯𝘨 𝘱𝘦𝘰𝘱𝘭𝘦.”
💭 “𝘐𝘧 𝘐’𝘮 𝘵𝘰𝘰 𝘮𝘶𝘤𝘩, 𝘐’𝘭𝘭 𝘣𝘦 𝘢𝘣𝘢𝘯𝘥𝘰𝘯𝘦𝘥.”
💭 “𝘉𝘦𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘴𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘭𝘦 𝘮𝘦𝘢𝘯𝘴 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨’𝘴 𝘸𝘳𝘰𝘯𝘨 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘮𝘦.”
Which of these have you carried? What would happen if you let it go?
If you’ve held any of these—please know:
There is nothing wrong with you.
You were just taught to settle. To shrink. To survive.
But you don’t have to live in survival mode anymore.
You’re allowed to unlearn the pain and remember your worth.
✨ You are not too much. You are not broken. You are not behind.
I created a video on our YouTube channel you can CHECK IT OUT HERE.
love always,
dani
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