I cancelled my wedding a month before it was scheduled to happen🥀

Dress paid for 👰 Venue, cake, photographer, videographer, DJ, officiant, amongst many other vendors deposits given to💰

A part of me didn’t want to cancel it because I was so far into it.

But an even BIGGER part of me knew…knew that I couldn’t do it anymore. The relationship had become unhealthy, toxic even. I couldn’t keep being in denial.

I took a break from my business for almost a year. Took good care of myself ❤️‍🩹 Worked with my psychologist, my personal trainer, my family, and my friends, healing. Put into practice the very things I teach my clients.

It’s been quite the journey. 🛤️

Sometimes it’s thought that people who initiate a breakup have it ‘easier’ because they’re the ones who initiated it. But it’s just as difficult to be the person initiating it; it can be really hard to choose ourselves.

If you’re struggling, please know you’re not alone❤️‍🩹

And also know that singlehood is not a gap to fill. It’s a powerful season for growth, self-connection, and emotional freedom. 💫

I created a video on our YouTube channel you can CHECK IT OUT HERE.

love always,

dani

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